Why You Should Learn from Doers, not from Teachers

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Learning is necessary for our existence. Just like food nourishes our physical bodies, information, and continued learning nourishes our minds. But we should also be careful about from whom we are learning.

I have wasted my 4 years of precious time on learning agriculture subjects from the teachers who never cultivated any crop in the crop field.

I also wasted my 2 more years by learning MBA from those teachers who had never done any kind of business in their real life.

After I finished my MBA degree, I have applied my teacher’s knowledge in my new business. But I miserably failed.

The reason was, my University teachers taught me what they learned by studying, but not by doing. Their past historical theory based teaching doesn’t work in today’s business world. Real businesses are far more different than academic book study.

The Lesson I Learned

From those above experiences, I realized that I won’t be able to become a business person with the learning I have learned from my teachers.

The lesson I learned was that “instead of teachers learn from doers.” Learn from those who got the result that you want.

Don’t learn from the people who are just giving you book knowledge and advice but implementing nothing. They are not going to take you ahead.

 Learn from the people who are really implementing and investing their energy, focus, and determinations to achieve their goals; those are already working on that same field and achieve the same success that you want.

For example, if you want to start a business, don’t learn from the teacher, who has never done any business in their life.

Instead, learn from a businessman who is doing the same business that you want to start, achieved the same success that you desire to achieve.

If you want to become an expert video editor, learn from that person who is an expert in video editing.

If you have a desire to become a great public speaker, learn from that person who is giving great speeches on the stage.

Old Myths about Old Age

We sometimes take advice from the people based on age. We think that old age people can give us good advice because they have seen the world a much longer time than us.

But this is not true at all. We don’t need to seek advice from the people based on their age.

We need to take advice from the people based on their results, based on their outcome. See their results first. If their results match with your goal then you can go for learning from them.

Don’t Take any Advice from Wrong People

Sometimes we go for taking advice from almost anyone. We go to the person who has no experience in that particular field we are seeking advice to.

To make it clear, I want to ask you a question.

 If you want to become a dancer, would you go to a mechanic to learn dancing?

Or would you go to a cook to learn computer programming?

Absolutely not!

If you want to become an excellent dancer, you need to go to a person who is excellent at dancing.

I am very selective when the question comes to taking advice. Even I have stopped taking advice from the sources that can only offer Mediocre Information.

How to achieve any goal in very less time

Make a list of what you want to learn or whatever goal you set to achieve. Then search for the person who already has achieved the same goal.

See what they are doing. Learn from them and do exactly what they are doing.

In this way, you will not just only save your time, energy, and effort from wasting, but also can achieve your goal much faster than you have ever achieved before.

Improve your Self-Image using 21 days of mirror work

Do you have low self-esteem? Are you suffering from a negative self-image?

Do you face difficulties in loving yourself?

If your answer is yes, then I have written this article for you only.

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In this article, I am going to share with you a very powerful technique to communicate directly with your inner-self.

In this content, first you will know what affirmation is and what is mirror work?

Then I will show you my own example of how I did mirror work which helped me to change the way I think about myself just within a day. Yes, to be honest, I am telling you that the day I started practicing the mirror work, I have started feeling and thinking differently about myself.

If you want to develop a positive self-image as well as a higher self-esteem, if you want to increase self-love… then stick with me, here I will be guiding you step by step how to do mirror work effectively so you can get the result very fast.

Mirror work has long been self-development guide Louise Hay’s signature method for developing a very deeper relationship with yourself and others.

Using this mirror work you will be able to connect with the inner child within you who has been neglected for very long. 

Let’s get started.

Let’s first know, what are Affirmations?

Affirmations are the positive statement that you verbally say out loud that influence the subconscious mind. So in turn, they influence our thinking patterns, habits, behavior, and environment.

They’re about qualities and beliefs people want to embody.

What is Mirror Work?

Mirror Work involves talking to yourself in the mirror. Looking into your eyes and making positive statements about yourself can strengthen the impact of affirmations.

Mirror reflects back to us the true feelings we have about ourselves.

If you are not sure, think about how you use mirror work already.

People speak to themselves in autopilot when they look in the mirror. Mostly, they do so to tell themselves they’re not good enough; the opposite of a positive affirmation. No doubt, you silently, if not out loud, talk to your reflection at times.

If you do not like your appearance, you probably use negative or disparaging words to reinforce the idea. You either criticize yourself or make fun of yourself and gradually it becomes a habit.

Negative thoughts embed themselves in your mind when you repeat them often.

The same is true if you look at yourself while saying a positive statement.

Let’s learn the Mirror Technique by Joining Affirmations step by step below.

Grab a mirror. I prefer a small one which is easy to handle and can do the practice with it anytime and anywhere.

Make sure you are alone so that you won’t be disturbed by others.

 Now, just take a look at what you see in the mirror without judgment.

Take three deep breaths.

Give a smile to you.

Get closer to the mirror so you can look straight into eyes.

Look into your eyes and say by your name, for example here I am sharing what I say when I do mirror work.

Hey Kakali, How are you?

I want to let you know that I love you, and I really love you so much Kakali!

You are incredible and it is so great to see you.

It doesn’t matter what happened to you and how many mistakes you have made in the past, I accept you completely. And I accept you as you are!

You are a beautiful soul. I am happy with you. 🙂

I wish you a very beautiful and blessed day!

That’s all! 🙂 But don’t just say it, mean it what you say, and feel it.

Do this exercise for 21 days, and multiple times a day whenever you pass a mirror until you finally believe it. 

You can master this powerful practice within 21 days if you do it consistently.

And see how miraculous you have developed a positive transformation and self-care within you.

You can choose your own affirmations, but make sure you select simple, positive, and effective words. And also make sure that the statement is in the present tense.

I believe that the technique I have shared with you will change your self-image from negative to positive, it will improve your self-esteem, and you will start loving yourself more.

Let me know if you have any quarries. I would love to know from you in the comment box below.